"You are not a skillful trainer if your dog is dependent on the training tool.”

It is like trying to wax a car. If you want to do a beautiful job, you have to be very immaculate about all the tiny little spots...

Why common methods do not work, and how should we do it instead?

If you don't believe in using any aversive, what is your end game?

Why don't I put scary "before" videos on my social media the way many trainers do?

Respecting our space goes beyond how and when we should give affection. It is about teaching the dog not to act as a "space patrol".